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Hijacking the hijab !
This blog is not about making political statements or religious antagonisms, it’s quite simply my opinion. No more, no less . I express it because my life has been blessed by some who are the target of this ongoing debate and also because I have my own thoughts and would like to categorically state them…
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She’s everything .. even when treated as nothing
Today is the 70th birthday of a lady I consider a great friend , family really . She’s the older sister of my bestest forever friend and one of the most uniquely beautiful souls I’ve ever had the joy of knowing . It depends who you are what you call her .. to some she’s…
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Why aunties face do dat?
A year ago today I was tucked up in bed , deep in slumber and dreaming of my soon to arrive holidays . My phone rang and in a haze of deep sleep and semi-consciousness I heard my dad’s voice tell me that it seemed like my sister was having a stroke . Nobody wants…
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What’s DNA got to do with it ?
I was raised in what modern terms people call “a blended family”. In other words not a 2.4 Mum + Dad + biological children . In our case we had the addition of my big hairy brother , by birth my first cousin , in life ALWAYS my brother . It wasn’t so acceptable in…
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Let me say once more that I love you …
“They tell me that time won’t erase , the way that my heart sees your face” Let me say once more Gary Chapman Yesterday I heard a story that broke my heart . A story that all at once shows that love can be both healing and destructive at the same time . Love is…
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Four paws, one tail and love that had no end …
I’m not sure why I went into the SSPCA that cold January day in 2015. Maybe it was the weather , maybe it was my animal crazy heart , or maybe just maybe it was written in the paw shaped stars that this would be the day that we found our Queen . I had…
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In the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter …
Today we will celebrate the upcoming 40th birthday of one of my most favourite humans on this earth . My beautiful Ali is about to enter the realms of her prime and nobody deserves the celebrations more than she . I can feel her dying a million deaths as she realises this blog is just…
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On a hill far away .. love ran red
Good Friday , the day Christian people around the world commemorate the crucifixion of Jesus Christ . Churches and chapels will be filled with their people making observances and following traditions. From the stations of the cross to modern worship concerts , communion and prayers . For the rest of the world it’s all about…
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Did you know that true love asks for nothing ?
Today was one of those days that leaves your whole head and heart in a quandary . Along with one of my oldest , dearest friends, I said farewell to a beautiful girl whose life was cut all too short . It was a strange feeling standing in front of her elegant white casket with…
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Mothering poverty .. the modern day workhouse?
Here’s a fact many of you , thankfully, will not know . The CSA (child support agency) ceased to exist last year . All its agreements were rendered null and void on December 31st 2017 and its purposes are being taken over by another agency . Meanwhile children all over this country of ours are…
